I hear that word and I don’t think of a car dealership or a mortgage.
I think of how I represent in my actions.
In lindy hop there is a difference between a dancer who can own it and one who can’t. When you own your movement your intention is clear and present.
If you don’t own it you can have the flashiest trick but you won’t win the crowd the way a dancer who merely walks but owns every step.
I struggled for a very long time understanding ownership in my own life. As someone quite capable in most of my pursuits I didn’t need to take responsibility and represent in my actions. Moderate success (which was passable) came to me. Yet I never truly excelled or connected with what I did.
I believed I didn’t need to invest the effort to do it right.
I lacked ownership
At some point I had to take accountability, responsibility and ultimately ownership of my actions or accept a life of mediocrity.
Claim the events of your life! When you posses all you have been and done, you are fierce with reality.
Recently this has been most evident in my financial life. I talked about saving or watching where my money went but until I finally held myself accountable and took ownership of my finances I struggled with overdrafts, bounced checks, and overspending.
The minute I took ownership of my financial life by creating a balance sheet for all of my accounts in which I recorded every cent I spent whether cash, credit or debit and every one I earned, my financial life turned upside down (or right side up really).
I almost immediately stopped overdrafting.
I put money into an ING Direct savings account (which I don’t touch).
I paid down my credit card debt (it is my goal by the end of 2009 to be consumer debt free).
I felt empowered.
Taking ownership of my finances had given me power and confidence over a section of my life that always made me feel uncomfortable.
Become fierce with reality.
Power is in representing in your actions. When you put yourself forward, put your whole self forward. Leave nothing in question when you take an action.